Flirting is a basic instinct, part of a human
nature. It is a universal and essential aspect of
human interaction. We see flirting as a fun thing;
a man flirts with a woman in order to attract
her, to ask her on a date.
There are two reasons why people flirt. Guys
which are flirting for fun do this because they
might seen a beautiful woman and flirt with her,
in order to meet her better, to have fun with her,
but not to start a relationship. The others,
which are flirting with intent, are more
selective about their choice, and want to meet
someone for a possible relationship.
The best places to flirt are parties, bars, clubs,
disco, and at the workplace. The first key to
successful flirting is not an ability to show off
and impress, but the knack of conveying that you
like someone.
However, you are single and you decided to go to
pick up some girls. You dressed up to impress,
smell good and start to flirt with a beautiful
woman from the club you are. After you use non
verbal flirting like body language, eye contact,
which indicates intense emotion, or gestures
which can signal interest, attraction and
invitation, you see that the beautiful woman is
responding you with a big smile and starts a
conversation with you.
After you compliment her and make her feel
special with you, she tells you that she is
married. Is this a big problem for you? If not,
if you want to approach her anyway you have to
compliment her, show interest about her, and be
sincere about it. Jerks hit all the time on
married women. That is why you have to show her
that she is interesting to you.
Married and flirting do not mix well. However,
many people do not consider this wrong as far as
it is just for fun. Flirting is like a game but
sometimes when you return the flirt things go a
little further. Often flirting is spontaneous, it
just happens as a normal response to somebody you
find appealing.
Dealing with married woman is very different from
women that are dating and single; there is a huge
amount of stigma applied by family, friends,
society, in order to try to keep married people
faithful.
Married women are usually looking to find someone
with whom to talk about their problems, someone
like a friend to understand them. If she really
wants to get into an extra-conjugal relationship
means that she has problems in her marriage, she
is bored of her husband, or she has a husband
that travels a lot and that is why she feels
lonely.
That is why she might be looking for someone to
offer her what her husband cannot. She is looking
for attention, love, understanding. She wants to
get much attention, time and affection as
possible without having to give up anything, so
you will be in her eyes just a friend. You should
tell her from the beginning that you will give
her all your attention if she would give you what
you want from her.
Usually married woman flirt, kiss and play guys
all the time but without any intention of taking
it further. If you manage to get with her in bed,
remember that a woman who is willing to cheat is
looking for excitement and drama. However, watch out
not to become her toy. Milf dating can be exciting,
but have many risks as well.
There are married women that need to see if
people are still interest in them. Therefore,
they begin to flirt to find out if they are still
attractive; they lose this feeling because their
husbands do not make them feel attractive anymore.
There are people who consider that flirting with
married people is harmless. Therefore, it is at
your choice if you really want to flirt with a
married woman and if you can handle it.
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Having a low self esteem can arise for many and complex reasons, and different causes may require different remedies. However, there are some common themes amongst those who suffer from a lack of self esteem, and alongside them come some partial solutions which, when brought together, may help you to start increasing your self regard. Once you start that process, it can then become a much easier task to eliminate your low self esteem altogether.
It can sometimes be very difficult to view yourself in a detached and critical way, without emotion intervening, and that is especially so if your self esteem is not at a tolerable level. However, it can be a great help if you can devote some initial time in self examination, and to find if there is a pattern to your feelings. If you can pinpoint those moments when your esteem is, in your eyes, at its lowest, and also at its highest, you will probably find some clues as to how you may improve the way you feel.
Something very important to remember is that, although you may not think too highly of yourself at any one moment, others may see you differently and more positively. In fact, everybody will see you from different angles, and with different results. You are an individual, and so is everyone else; what that means is you have a self image and a different image to everyone else you ever meet. That image is one you make into what you want, if approached in the right way and with patience.
How differently you may appear to others can be quite stunning, when compared to the way you feel. Once on a management course I had to do a mock presentation to a senior executive, based on quite a large volume of reading material. It was February in England, and I had just come back to work that day after 2 weeks of flu, commuted for over 2 hours, and felt awful. What was more overwhelming was that my personal life was in emotional turmoil, and was about all I could think of. I felt dire, but had to do the presentation, and to make it worse, have it videod and then criticized by others on the course, plus lecturers.
When I watched that video, sitting with the “jury”, I could not believe I was watching me. I had felt terrible, but came across as calm, knowledgeable and in full control. I never once obviously referred to my notes, whereas others had. Yet I knew there were others on the course far more able than I.
There are a couple of lessons that can be learned from this:
Firstly, I saw for the first time how differently you may be viewed from outside of yourself, and it is always worth bearing in mind that others in your life may be thinking very positively of you.
Secondly, what carried me through on that occasion was simply my memory. My “natural” memory was not good, so when I had first started professional studies, I had bought a manual on improving memory. That was the only reason I could appear so confident to others, when I, quite frankly, felt like death warmed up.
What, then, can you do with those two lessons? As far as the way others see you is concerned, try to spend some time focusing on the way different people react to you, and concentrate on those who are very positive and seem to like you, and respect you. It is a privilege to be liked and respected, so you are entitled to make the most of it and appreciate it. Try to see yourself the way they see you. If you feel happiest with those people, or even one of them, then try to understand why. If the opportunity arises, have yourself recorded on video with these people in a natural setting, just a home video. Better still, make that opportunity arise. Then watch that video and learn; see yourself happy and at your height in confidence. You will not be the person you feel inside.
If you find there is a part of your life, such as work environment, where your self esteem is lowest, then work on building your confidence with the aim in mind of leaving that environment. A fresh start with people you have never even met before can be an ideal time to “reinvent” yourself. The important thing, though, is to make the most of the positives in your current situation, and give them greater emphasis. Over time, you can work on minimizing or eliminating the negatives.When it comes to memory, that is a skill that can be applied in just about any situation. Used discreetly and naturally, without showing off, a good memory can make a very positive impression on others, and enhance your own life in many ways.
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The happiest folks are those who do not judge others, live in kindness and truly love themselves without conditions. Have you ever seen somebody who is perpetually positive and happy and wish you could be like them ? You truly CAN achieve a healthy self-esteem…it simply takes time and effort. Presented here are seven steps to help you on your way to becoming a happier, healthier YOU.
1. IDENTIFY
One is not required to live by “I have to” or “I must” – everything we do is a result of a decision…a choice. Choices made in our younger years and choices made this morning when we woke up. Everything is a choice: to obey or disobey; to study or not study; to eat right or not eat right. When making these choices, we control everything about our lives including our future and our level of self-awareness. When you see a wise, confident, beautiful person – it’s not luck, it’s choice. Once you realize and accept this, only then can you begin to become who it is you want to be. All of us are given gifts…special gifts and talents. Through self-discovery, we are able to identify these gifts. If we pay attention to who we are and what makes us happy, we will make the right choices to set our own future.
2. EVALUATE
Who are you? Look at yourself and be honest. Write on a piece of paper the things you like (Pros) and don’t like (Cons) about you. If you are (and you should be) your own best friend, you should be able to take a look at the Cons and develop a plan to begin moving those negatives over to the positive side. Likewise, you should take a look at your Pros and develop a plan to make sure those positive attributes remain on the positive side and continue to grow on the inside AND the outside of you. As you work out a plan, try to find people with like personalities who share your same goals. These are the very people that will make great friends and help you stay on your set path.
3. CONFIRM
Talk to yourself! Still using your list of Pros, begin reinforcing the positive attributes of your personality. I AM…. “I am successful”, “I am pretty”, “I am fun!”... every positive thought should be repeated often – YOU are WHAT you THINK !!!
4. FORGIVE
Forgive yourself for screw ups! They happen to all of us! We are as imperfect as our bodies!! Give yourself a break – forgive and move on. You can’t change the past – but you can live in the present and affect the future! If you are interested in working from home, get the free training at SpankYourBoss.com today !
5. REST
Treat yourself right. Be a friend, a good listener, a giver, not a taker – we feel the best about ourselves when we make someone else smile.
6. BE THANKFUL
Gratitude will get you everywhere. Give thanks to your creator. Be humble in all you have. Pray for those with cold hearts or sad lives. Really know what you have; all of the gifts, talents, and things you possess. Here today, gone tomorrow…if you live your life with gratitude and love, peace will always be in your presence. Take a moment to visit BestMetabolismBoosters dot com and get your free eBook "54 Best Diet Tricks Ever"
7. ACCEPTANCE
Do not accept your fate dictated by others. Accept only the fate you give yourself. Through acts of kindness and focused determination, you can achieve all that is good in this life. When you believe in kindness and in yourself – you can achieve anything. At that point self-esteem is abundant and so is your life.
Know yourself. Like yourself. Live your life like everybody you see is only wearing their underwear !
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